getting mySQL set up on ubuntu

It is too painful to setup mysql via a source code build so I used a non-RPM install. It didn't quite work out of the box. Here's what I did: groupadd mysql
useradd -g mysql mysql
cd /usr/local
gunzip < /path/to/mysql-VERSION-OS.tar.gz | tar xvf -
ln -s full-path-to-mysql-VERSION-OS mysql
cd mysql
chown -R mysql .
chgrp -R mysql .
scripts/mysql_install_db --user=mysql --basedir=/usr/local/mysql --force
chown -R root .
chown -R mysql data
bin/mysqld_safe --user=mysql &
This last step was an attempt to start up the mysql server. It failed, as can be seen by the next command and its output. bin/mysqladmin version
bin/mysqladmin: connect to server at 'localhost' failed
error: 'Can't connect to local MySQL server through socket '/var/run/mysqld/mysqld.sock' (2)'
Check that mysqld is running and that the socket: '/var/run/mysqld/mysqld.sock' exists!
On with an attempt at a fix: touch /var/run/mysqld/mysqld.sock
chown -R mysql /var/run/mysqld/
bin/mysqld_safe --user=mysql &
THIS DIDN'T WORK. Error log said:
[ERROR] Can't find messagefile '/usr/share/english/errmsg.sys'
fixed by saying:
bin/mysqld_safe --user=mysql --language=./share/english &
Now I can connect. All I need to do now is put this into the bootup sequence....